FAMILIES:

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There is no one or perfect way to deal with members
of our family. It is up to each of us to choose a path
that suits us and our needs at each point in time.

The idea that is new to us in recovery is that we can
choose. We can set the boundaries we need to set with
family members. We can choose a path that works for us,
without guilt and obligation or undue influence from any
source, including recovery professionals.

Our goal is to detach in love with family members. Our
goal is to be able to take care of ourselves, love
ourselves, and live healthy lives.

It's okay to say no to our families when that is what we
want. It's okay to say yes to our families if that feels
right. It's okay to call time-out and it's okay to go back
as a different person.