Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~Who would try to nail boards together without a hammer or changea flat tire without a jack? To deny our need for tools would beridiculous, wouldn't it? Yet many of us have trouble accepting thatwe need tools to repair our damaged self-esteem.Sheer force of will won't lift a car so that a bad tire can be replacedand it won't lift a heavy burden from our spirits either. Insight andknowledge of carpentry can't pound a nail – nor can insight andknowledge, without the help of tools, pound the dents out of ourbattered psyches.It isn't weak or shameful to admit that a human finger isn't ascrewdriver and a human eye isn't a microscope. Why do we resistthe idea that spiritual work, like physical work, has its own set oftools? Reading, sharing, praying, and attending our support group'smeetings – these are the tools that help us do the job. They aren'toptional niceties or crutches. If we need to lay a new foundation, weneed to dig a big hole. And if we need to dig a hole, we'd betterbe willing to use a shovel.My willingness to use the tools determines the outcome of the job.Web Store: http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/
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