Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
STINKIN THINKIN:
~
I think I could change him. Nobody's ever really loved him and
appreciated him before. She's never been with anybody trustworthy
before. Nobody's been able to get to her before. Nobody's ever really
given him a chance. Nobody's ever really believed in him before.
These are warning signs. Red lights. Red flags. In fact, if we're
thinking these thoughts, they need to be stop signs.
This is a game. A deception. It won't work. It'll make us crazy. We
can trust that. We're not seeing things clearly. Something's going on
with us.
The whole thought pattern reeks of codependency, of not being
responsible for oneself. Each person needs to do his or her own
work.
We have not been appointed as guardian angel, god-mother,
godfather, or "the one who will."
The help, support, and encouragement that truly benefits others
and ourselves emerges naturally. Let it.
Web Stores:
eCrater -
http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/
Webidz -
http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRH
No comments:
Post a Comment
Newer Post
Older Post
Home
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
About Me
WRH
Semi-Retired
View my complete profile
No comments:
Post a Comment