Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
ASKING:
~
Decide what it is you want and need, then go to the person you need
it from and ask for it.
But because of how difficult it can be, at times, to get what we want
and need, we may get trapped in the mind-set of believing it will
always be that difficult. Sometimes, not wanting to go through the
hassle, dreading the struggle, or out of fear, we may make getting
what we want and need much more difficult than it needs to be.
We may get angry before we ask, deciding that we'll never get what
we want, or anticipating the "fight" we'll have to endure. By the time
we talk to someone about what we want, we may be so angry that
we're demanding, not asking; thus our anger triggers a power play
that didn't exist except in our mind.
Or we may get so worked up that we don't ask – or we waste far
more energy than necessary fighting with ourselves, only to find out
that the other person, or our Higher Power, is happy to give us what
we want.
Sometimes in life, getting what we want and need is not so difficult.
Sometimes, all we need to do is ask.
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