Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the relationship die from lackof attention rather than risk ending it. Sometimes, it may appeareasier to let the other person take responsibility for ending therelationship.As we walk this path of self-care, we learn that when it is time toend a relationship, the easiest way is one of honesty and directness.We are not sparing the other persons feelings by sabotaging therelationship instead of accepting the end or the change, and doingsomething about it. We are prolonging and increasing the pain anddiscomfort – for the other person and ourselves.Endings are never easy, but endings are not made easy by sabotage,indirectness, and lying about what we want and need to do.Say what you need to say, in honesty and love, when it is time. Ifwe are trusting and listening to ourselves, we will know what to sayand when to say it.Web Stores:eCrater - http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/Webidz - http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRHiOffer - http://www.ioffer.com/shops/wrhmcp
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