Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
STINKIN THINKIN:
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I think I could change him. Nobody's ever really loved him and
appreciated him before. She's never been with anybody
trustworthy before. Nobody's been able to get to her before.
Nobody's ever really given him a chance. Nobody's ever really
believed in him before.
These are warning signs. Red lights. Red flags. In fact, if we're
thinking these thoughts, they need to be stop signs.
This is a game. A deception. It won't work. It'll make us crazy. We
can trust that. We're not seeing things clearly. Something's going on
with us.
The whole thought pattern reeks of codependency, of not being
responsible for oneself. Each person needs to do his or her own work.
We have not been appointed as guardian angel, god-mother,
godfather, or "the one who will."
The help, support, and encouragement that truly benefits others and
ourselves emerges naturally. Let it.
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