Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~A pianist often needs to practice each hand's work separately tolearn the feel, to learn the sound. One hand picks out a part untilthere is a rhythm and ease in playing what is difficult. Then, themusician practices with the other hand, picking through the notes,one by one, until that hand learns its tasks. When each hand haslearned its part – the sound, the feel, the rhythm, the tones – thenboth hands can play together.During the time of practice, the music may not sound like much. Itmay sound disconnected, not particularly beautiful. But when bothhands are ready to play together, music is created.When we begin recovery, it may feel like we spend months, evenyears, practicing individual, seemingly disconnected behaviors inthe separate parts of our life.We take our new skills into our work, our career, and begin to applythem slowly, making our work relationships healthier for us. Wetake our skills into our relationships, sometimes one relationship ata time. We struggle through our new behaviors in our loverelationships.We work on our relationship with our Higher Power – ourspirituality. We work at loving ourselves. We work at believing wedeserve the best. We work on our finances. On our recreation.Sometimes on our appearance. Sometimes on our home.We work on feelings. On beliefs. On behaviors. Letting go of theold, acquiring the new. We go from one extreme to the other, andsometimes back through the course again. We make a littleprogress, go backward, and then go forward again.It may all seem disconnected. It may not sound like a harmonious,beautiful piece of music. Then one day, something happens. Webecome ready to play with both hands, to put the music together.What we have been working toward, note by note, becomes a song.That song is a whole life, a complete life, a life in harmony.The music will come together in our life if we keep practicing theparts.Web Stores:eCrater - http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/Webidz - http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRHPolice ARDC – http://www.wrhmcp.com/
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