Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~Why do we struggle so with our feelings? Why do we work so hardto deny our emotions, especially concerning other people?In the course of a day, we may deny we feel frustrated in reactionto someone who is selling us a service.We may deny that we feel frustrated, angry, or hurt in reaction to afriend.We may deny feelings of fear, or anger, toward our children.We may deny a whole range of feelings toward our spouse or oursignificant other.We may deny feelings provoked by people we work for, or by peoplethat work for us.Sometimes the feelings are a direct reaction to others. Sometimespeople trigger something deeper – an old sadness or frustration.Regardless of the source of our feelings, they are still our feelings.We own them. And acceptance is often all that is necessary to makethem go away.We don't have to let our feelings control our behavior. We don't haveto act on each feeling that passes through us.It does help to talk about our feelings with someone we trust.Sometimes we need to bring our feelings to the person who istriggering them. That can breed intimacy and closeness. But themost important person we need to tell is ourselves. If we allow ourfeelings to pass through us, accept them, and release them, we shallknow what to do next.Web Stores:eCrater - http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/Webidz - http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRHPolice ARDC – http://www.wrhmcp.comAtomic Mall - http://www.atomicmall.com/wrhmcp
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