Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~We cannot afford to put our needs on hold, waiting for anotherperson to fulfill us, make our life better, or come around and be whoand what we want that person to be.If we have decided we want a particular relationship or want to waitabout making a decision in a particular relationship, then we mustgo on with our own life in the interim.That can be hard. It can feel natural to put our life on hold.That's a circumstance that can hook our low self-esteem.We can get into this situation in a number of ways. We can do thiswaiting for a letter, waiting for a job, waiting for a person, waitingfor an event.What is something I could be doing now to take care of myself, makemyself feel better, get my needs met in an appropriate, healthy way?Sometimes, we get the answer we want immediately. Sometimes, wewait for a while. Sometimes, things don't work out exactly the waywe hoped. But they always work out for good, and often better thanwe expected.And in the meantime, we have manifested love for ourselves byliving our own life and taking the control away from others.Stopping living our life to make a thing happen doesn't work. All itdoes is make us miserable, because we have stopped living our life.Web Stores:eCrater - http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/Webidz - http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRHPolice ARDC – http://www.wrhmcp.comAtomic Mall - http://www.atomicmall.com/wrhmcp
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