Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~In recovery from codependency, we learn there's a big differencebetween humility and discounting ourselves.When others act irresponsibly and attempt to blame their problemson us, we no longer feel guilty. We let them face their ownconsequences.When others try to manipulate or exploit us, we know it's okay tofeel anger and distrust and to say no to the plan.When others tell us we want something that we really don't want,or someone tells us that we don't want something that we really dowant, we trust ourselves. When others tell us things we don'tbelieve, we know it's okay to trust our instincts.We can even change our mind later.We don't have to give up our personal power to anyone: strangers,friends, spouses, children, authority figures, or those over whomwe're in authority. People may have things to teach us. They mayhave more information than we have, and may appear moreconfident or forceful than we feel. But we are equals.We are not second-class citizens. By owning our power, we don'thave to become aggressive or controlling. We don't have to discountothers. But we don't discount ourselves either.Web Stores:eCrater - http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/Webidz - http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRHPolice ARDC – http://www.wrhmcp.comAtomic Mall - http://www.atomicmall.com/wrhmcp
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