Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
~We take responsibility for ourselves. We detach, when detachmentis called for. We set boundaries, when we need to do that.We negotiate conflicts, we try to separate our issues from the otherperson's issues, and we don't expect perfection from ourselves orothers.We let go of our need to control that which we cannot control.Instead, we strive for peace and manageability.We do not tolerate abuse, nor do we abuse or mistreat anyone else.We try to not set ourselves up by taking assignments that couldn'tpossibly work out, or jobs that are not right for us.We leave room for great days, and not so great days.We are gentle and loving with people whenever possible, but we areassertive and firm when that is called for.Sometimes, we give ourselves a good gripe session to let it all out,but we do that appropriately. We strive to avoid malicious gossipand other self-defeating behaviors.We avoid competition. We understand that we may like somepeople we work with and dislike others, but strive to find harmonyand balance with everyone. We do not deny how we feel about acertain person, but we strive to maintain good working relationshipswherever possible.If something gets or feels crazy, if we find ourselves working with aperson who is addicted or has some kind of dysfunction that istroublesome, we do not make ourselves crazier by denying theproblem. We accept it and strive in peace to figure out what we needto do to take care of ourselves.We let go of our need to be martyrs or rescuers at work. We removeourselves as victims. We practice acceptance, gratitude, and faith.One day at a time, we strive to enjoy what is good, solve theproblems that are ours to solve.Web Stores:eCrater - http://wrhmcp.ecrater.com/Webidz - http://www.webidz.com/stores/WRHPolice Registry - http://www.wrhmcp.com/Atomic Mall - http://www.atomicmall.com/wrhmcpAmazon - http://www.amazon.com/shops/wrhmcp
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