Thursday, May 05, 2011

ANGER:



Feeling angry – and, sometimes, the act of blaming – is a natural
and necessary part of accepting loss and change – of grieving.

As we come to terms with loss and change, we may blame
ourselves, our Higher Power, or others. The person may be
connected to the loss, or he or she may be an innocent bystander.
We've learned that blame doesn't help. In recovery, the
watchwords are self-responsibility and personal accountability,
not blame. Ultimately, surrender and self-responsibility are the
only concepts that can move us forward, but to get there we may
need to allow ourselves to feel angry and to occasionally indulge in
some blaming.

It is helpful, in dealing with others, to remember that they, too,
may need to go through their angry stage to achieve acceptance.
To not allow others, or ourselves, to go through anger and blame
may slow down the grief process.

We won't stay angry forever. But we may need to get mad for a
while as we search over what could have been, to finally accept
what is.

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