Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
For many of us, the issue is not whether we can trust anotherperson again; it's whether we can trust our own judgment again.
Many of us have trusted people who went on to deceive, abuse,manipulate, or otherwise exploit us because we trusted them. Wemay have found these people charming, kind, decent. There mayhave been a small voice that said, "No – something's wrong." Orwe may have been comfortable with trusting that person andshocked when we found our instincts were wrong.
The issue may then reverberate through our life for years. Ourtrust in others may have been shaken, but our trust in ourselvesmay have been shattered worse.
How could something feel so right, flow so good, and be such a totalmistake? How can I ever trust my selection process again?
We cannot let our past interfere with our ability to trust ourselves.We cannot afford to function with fear.
If we are always making the wrong decision in business or in love,we may need to learn why we insist on defeating ourselves.
But most of us do improve. We learn. We grow from our mistakes.Slowly, in increments, our relationships improve. Our businesschoices improve. We benefit from our mistakes.
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