Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
It's okay to ask for help.
We don't have to struggle through feelings and problems alone. Wecan ask for help from our Higher Power and for support andencouragement from our friends.
Whether what we need is information, encouragement, a hand, aword, a hug, someone who will listen, or a ride, we can ask. We canask people for what we need from them. We can ask the God of ourunderstanding for what we need from the God of our understanding.
It is self-defeating to not ask for the help we need. It keeps usstuck. If we ask long and hard enough, if we direct our request tothe right source, we'll get the help we need.
There is a difference between asking someone to rescue us andasking someone in a direct manner for the help we need from himor her. We can be straightforward and let others choose whether tohelp us or not. If the answer is no, we can deal with that.
It is self-defeating to hint, whine, manipulate, or coerce help outof people. It is annoying to go to people as a victim and expectthem to rescue us. It is healthy to ask for help when help is whatwe need.
We who are eager to help others can learn to allow ourselves toreceive help. We can learn to make clean contracts about asking forand receiving the help we want and need.
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