PROGRESS:

We cannot afford to put our needs on hold, waiting for another
person to fulfill us, make our life better, or come around and be
who and what we want that person to be.

If we have decided we want a particular relationship or want to
wait about making a decision in a particular relationship, then we
must go on with our own life in the interim.

That can be hard. It can feel natural to put our life on hold.

That's a circumstance that can hook our low self-esteem.

We can get into this situation in a number of ways. We can do this
waiting for a letter, waiting for a job, waiting for a person, waiting
for an event.

What is something I could be doing now to take care of myself,
make myself feel better, get my needs met in an appropriate,
healthy way?

Sometimes, we get the answer we want immediately. Sometimes,
we wait for a while. Sometimes, things don't work out exactly the
way we hoped. But they always work out for good, and often
better than we expected.

And in the meantime, we have manifested love for ourselves by
living our own life and taking the control away from others.

Stopping living our life to make a thing happen doesn't work. All it
does is make us miserable, because we have stopped living our life.

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