Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Allowing ourselves to receive love is one of the greatest challengeswe face in recovery.
Many of us have blocked ourselves from receiving love. We mayhave lived with people who used love to control us. They would bethere for us, but at the high price of our freedom. Love was given,or withheld, to control us and have power over us.
At some point in recovery, we acknowledge that we, too, want andneed to be loved. We may feel awkward with this need. How can welet others care for us without feeling trapped, abused, frightened,and unable to care for ourselves?
We will learn. The starting point is surrender – to our desire to beloved, our need to be nurtured and loved. We will grow confident inour ability to take care of ourselves with people. We will feel safeenough to let people care for us; we will grow to trust our ability tochoose people who are safe and who can give us love.
We may need to get angry first – angry that our needs have notbeen met. Later, we can become grateful to those people who haveshown us what we don't want, the ones who have assisted us in theprocess of believing we deserve love, and the ones who come intoour life to love us.
Surrender to the love that is there for us, to the love that people,the Universe, and our Higher Power send our way.
Start by surrendering to love for yourself.
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