Sunday, November 17, 2013

BEING A VICTIM:


It's okay to be doing okay and to feel
like our life is manageable.

Many of us have learned, as part of our
survival behaviors that the way to get
the attention and approval we want is
to be victims.

We may have learned this from living
and associating with people who also
learned to survive by being a victim.

We are not victims. We do not need to
be helpless and out of control to get
the attention and love we want.

We can get the love we want and need
by only owning our power. We learn
that the people we are leaning on are
not holding us up. They are standing
next to us.

We all have bad days, days when things
are not going the way we'd like, days
when we have feelings of sadness and
fear. But we can deal with our bad days
and negative feelings in ways that
reflect self-responsibility rather than
victimization.

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