Monday, December 16, 2013

STINKIN THINKIN:


I think I could change him. Nobody's
ever really loved him and appreciated
him before. She's never been with
anybody trustworthy before. Nobody's
been able to get to her before.
Nobody's ever really given him a
chance. Nobody's ever really believed
in him before.

These are warning signs. Red lights.
Red flags. In fact, if we're thinking
these thoughts, they need to be stop
signs.

This is a game. A deception. It won't
work. It'll make us crazy. We can trust
that. We're not seeing things clearly.
Something's going on with us.

The whole thought pattern reeks of
codependency, of not being
responsible for oneself. Each person
needs to do his or her own work.

We have not been appointed as
guardian angel, god-mother,
godfather, or "the one who will."

The help, support, and encouragement
that truly benefits others and ourselves
emerges naturally. Let it.

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