Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Wednesday, March 12, 2014
ASKING:
Decide what it is you want and need,
then go to the person you need it
from and ask for it.
But because of how difficult it can
be, at times, to get what we want
and need, we may get trapped in the
mind-set of believing it will always
be that difficult. Sometimes, not
wanting to go through the hassle,
dreading the struggle, or out of fear,
we may make getting what we want
and need much more difficult than
it needs to be.
We may get angry before we ask,
deciding that we'll never get what
we want, or anticipating the "fight"
we'll have to endure. By the time we
talk to someone about what we want,
we may be so angry that we're
demanding, not asking; thus our
anger triggers a power play that
didn't exist except in our mind.
Or we may get so worked up that we
don't ask – or we waste far more
energy than necessary fighting with
ourselves, only to find out that the
other person, or our Higher Power,
is happy to give us what we want.
Sometimes in life, getting what we
want and need is not so difficult.
Sometimes, all we need to do is ask.
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