Monday, May 05, 2014

VICTIM:


You are not a victim.

Victimization can be like a gray cloak
that surrounds us, both attracting that
which will victimize us and causing
us to generate the feelings of
victimization.

Victimization can be so habitual that
we may feel victimized even by the
good things that happen to us!

Got a new car? Yes, we sigh, but it
doesn't run as well as I expected, and
after all, it cost so much.

You've got such a nice family! Yes,
we sigh, but there are problems. And
we've had such hard times.

If we set our mind to it, we have an
incredible, almost awesome ability
to find misery in any situation.

We may have been victimized. We
may have allowed ourselves to be
victimized. We may have sought out,
created, or re-created situations that
victimized us. But we are not
victims.

Set a boundary. Deal with the anger.
Tell someone no, or stop that. Walk
away from a relationship. Ask for
what you need. Make choices and
take responsibility for them.

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