DETACHMENT:

One day, my son brought a gerbil home to live
with us. We put it in a cage. Some time later, the
gerbil escaped. For the next six months, the
animal ran frightened and wild through the
house. So did we – chasing it.

"There it is. Get it!" we'd scream, each time
someone spotted the gerbil. I, or my son, would
throw down whatever we were working on,
race across the house, and lunge at the animal
hoping to catch it.

I worried about it, even when we didn't see it.
"This isn't right," I'd think. "I can't have a gerbil

running loose in the house. We've got to catch it.
We've got to do something."

A small animal, the size of a mouse had the
entire household in a tizzy.

One day, while sitting in the living room, I
watched the animal scurry across the hallway. In
a frenzy, I started to lunge at it, as I usually did,
then I stopped myself.

No, I said. I'm all done. If that animal wants to
live in the nooks and crannies of this house, I'm
going to let it. I'm done worrying about it. I'm
done chasing it. It's an irregular circumstance,
but that's just the way it's going to have to be.

I let the gerbil run past without reacting. I felt
slightly uncomfortable with my new reaction
– not reacting – but I stuck to it anyway.

I got more comfortable with my new reaction
– not reacting. Before long, I became
downright peaceful with the situation. I had
stopped fighting the gerbil. One afternoon,
only weeks after I started practicing my new
attitude, the gerbil ran by me, as it had so
many times, and I barely glanced at it. The
animal stopped in its tracks, turned around,
and looked at me. I started to lunge at it. It
started to run away. I relaxed.

"Fine," I said. "Do what you want." And I
meant it.

One hour later, the gerbil came and stood by
me, and waited. I gently picked it up and
placed it in its cage, where it has lived happily
ever since. The moral of the story? Don't
lunge at the gerbil. He's already frightened,
and chasing him just scares him more and
makes us crazy.

Detachment works.

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