Tuesday, July 22, 2014

PROGRESS:


We cannot afford to put our needs on hold,
waiting for another person to fulfill us, make
our life better, or come around and be who and
what we want that person to be.

If we have decided we want a particular
relationship or want to wait about making a
decision in a particular relationship, then we
must go on with our own life in the interim.

That can be hard. It can feel natural to put our
life on hold. That's a circumstance that can
hook our low self-esteem.

We can get into this situation in a number of
ways. We can do this waiting for a letter,
waiting for a job, waiting for a person, waiting
for an event.

What is something I could be doing now to
take care of myself, make myself feel better,
get my needs met in an appropriate, healthy
way?

Sometimes, we get the answer we want
immediately. Sometimes, we wait for a while.
Sometimes, things don't work out exactly the
way we hoped. But they always work out for
good, and often better than we expected.

And in the meantime, we have manifested
love for ourselves by living our own life and
taking the control away from others.

Stopping living our life to make a thing happen
doesn't work. All it does is make us miserable,
because we have stopped living our life.

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