Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Thursday, July 17, 2014
TRUST:
For many of us, the issue is not whether
we can trust another person again; it's
whether we can trust our own judgment
again.
Many of us have trusted people who
went on to deceive, abuse, manipulate,
or otherwise exploit us because we
trusted them. We may have found these
people charming, kind, decent. There
may have been a small voice that said,
"No – something's wrong." Or we may
have been comfortable with trusting that
person and shocked when we found our
instincts were wrong.
The issue may then reverberate through
our life for years. Our trust in others
may have been shaken, but our trust in
ourselves may have been shattered
worse.
How could something feel so right, flow
so good, and be such a total mistake?
How can I ever trust my selection
process again?
We cannot let our past interfere with our
ability to trust ourselves. We cannot
afford to function with fear.
If we are always making the wrong
decision in business or in love, we may
need to learn why we insist on defeating
ourselves.
But most of us do improve. We learn.
We grow from our mistakes. Slowly, in
increments, our relationships improve.
Our business choices improve. We
benefit from our mistakes.
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