Can we find the balance between needing
people too much and letting ourselves
people too much and letting ourselves
become totally independent from others?
Some of us have dependency needs
lingering from the past. While we want
others to fulfill our thoughts to be loved
unconditionally, we may have chosen
people who cannot, or will not, be there
for us.
lingering from the past. While we want
others to fulfill our thoughts to be loved
unconditionally, we may have chosen
people who cannot, or will not, be there
for us.
Some of us go to the other extreme. We
may have become used to people not
may have become used to people not
being there for us, so we push them
away, We fight off our feelings of
away, We fight off our feelings of
neediness by becoming overly
independent, not allowing ourselves to
need anyone.
independent, not allowing ourselves to
need anyone.
If we have shut off the part of us that
needs people, we can become willing to
needs people, we can become willing to
open up, be vulnerable, and let
ourselves be loved. We can let ourselves
have needs.
ourselves be loved. We can let ourselves
have needs.
We will get the love we need and desire
when we begin to believe we're
when we begin to believe we're
lovable, and when we allow that to
happen.
happen.
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