Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Tuesday, April 07, 2015
ASKING:
Decide what it is you want and
need, then go to the person
you need it from and ask for it.
But because of how difficult it
can be, at times, to get what we
want and need, we may get
trapped in the mind-set of
believing it will always be that
difficult. Sometimes, not
wanting to go through the
hassle, dreading the struggle,
or out of fear, we may make
getting what we want and need
much more difficult than it
needs to be.
We may get angry before we
ask, deciding that we'll never
get what we want, or
anticipating the "fight" we'll
have to endure. By the time
we talk to someone about
what we want, we may be so
angry that we're demanding,
not asking; thus our anger
triggers a power play that
didn't exist except in our
mind.
Or we may get so worked up
that we don't ask – or we
waste far more energy than
necessary fighting with
ourselves, only to find out
that the other person, or our
Higher Power, is happy to
give us what we want.
Sometimes in life, getting
what we want and need is not
so difficult. Sometimes, all we
need to do is ask.
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