Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Sunday, April 26, 2015
ON THE JOB:
We take responsibility for
ourselves. We detach, when
detachment is called for. We
set boundaries, when we
need to do that.
We negotiate conflicts, we try
to separate our issues from
the other person's issues, and
we don't expect perfection
from ourselves or others.
We let go of our need to
control that which we
cannot control. Instead, we
strive for peace and
manageability.
We do not tolerate abuse, nor
do we abuse or mistreat
anyone else.
We try to not set ourselves up
by taking assignments that
couldn't possibly work out, or
jobs that are not right for us.
We leave room for great days,
and not so great days.
We are gentle and loving with
people whenever possible,
but we are assertive and firm
when that is called for.
Sometimes, we give ourselves
a good gripe session to let it
all out, but we do that
appropriately. We strive to
avoid malicious gossip and
other self-defeating behaviors.
We avoid competition. We
understand that we may like
some people we work with
and dislike others, but strive
to find harmony and balance
with everyone. We do not
deny how we feel about a
certain person, but we strive
to maintain good working
relationships wherever
possible.
If something gets or feels
crazy, if we find ourselves
working with a person who
is addicted or has some kind
of dysfunction that is
troublesome, we do not make
ourselves crazier by denying
the problem. We accept it and
strive in peace to figure out
what we need to do to take
care of ourselves.
We let go of our need to be
martyrs or rescuers at work.
We remove ourselves as
victims. We practice
acceptance, gratitude, and
faith.
One day at a time, we strive
to enjoy what is good, solve
the problems that are ours to
solve.
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