Saturday, May 30, 2015

VICTIM:



You are not a victim.

Victimization can be like a gray cloak that surrounds us,
both attracting that which will victimize us and causing
us to generate the feelings of victimization.

Victimization can be so habitual that we may feel
victimized even by the good things that happen to us!

Got a new car? Yes, we sigh, but it doesn't run as well
as I expected, and after all, it cost so much.

You've got such a nice family! Yes, we sigh, but there
are problems. And we've had such hard times.

If we set our mind to it, we have an incredible, almost
awesome ability to find misery in any situation.

We may have been victimized. We may have allowed
ourselves to be victimized. We may have sought out,
created, or re-created situations that victimized us.
But we are not victims.

Set a boundary. Deal with the anger. Tell someone no,
or stop that. Walk away from a relationship. Ask for
what you need. Make choices and take responsibility for them.

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