Thursday, August 13, 2015

PROGRESS:



We cannot afford to put our needs on hold, waiting for
another person to fulfill us, make our life better, or come
around and be who and what we want that person to be.

If we have decided we want a particular relationship or
want to wait about making a decision in a particular
relationship, then we must go on with our own life in the
interim.

That can be hard. It can feel natural to put our life on hold.
That's a circumstance that can hook our low self-esteem.

We can get into this situation in a number of ways. We can
do this waiting for a letter, waiting for a job, waiting for a
person, waiting for an event.

What is something I could be doing now to take care of myself,
make myself feel better, get my needs met in an appropriate,
healthy way?

Sometimes, we get the answer we want immediately. Sometimes,
we wait for a while. Sometimes, things don't work out exactly
the way we hoped. But they always work out for good, and often
better than we expected.

And in the meantime, we have manifested love for ourselves by
living our own life and taking the control away from others.

Stopping living our life to make a thing happen doesn't work. All
it does is make us miserable, because we have stopped living our
life.

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