Thursday, October 08, 2015

DEADLINES:


Sometimes, it helps to set a deadline.

This can be true when we face unsolved problems,
or are struggling with a tough decision.

That does not mean a deadline is written in stone. It
means that we are establishing a time frame to help
ourselves not feel so helpless and to help bring a
solution into focus.

We don't always need to tell people we've got a
deadline. Sometimes, it's better to be silent, or else
they may feel we are trying to control them and may
rebel against our deadline. Sometimes, it is
appropriate to share our deadlines with others.

Deadlines are primarily a tool to help ourselves. They
need to be reasonable and appropriate to each
individual situation. Used properly, deadlines can be
a beneficial tool to help us get through difficult
problems and situations without feeling trapped and
helpless. Setting a deadline can help move us out
of that uncomfortable spot of feeling victimized by a
person or a problem we can't solve.

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