Friday, October 30, 2015

ENDING RELATIONSHIPS:


Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the relationship
die from lack of attention rather than risk ending it.
Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the other person
take responsibility for ending the relationship.

As we walk this path of self-care, we learn that when it
is time to end a relationship, the easiest way is one of
honesty and directness.

We are not sparing the other persons feelings by sabotaging
the relationship instead of accepting the end or the change,
and doing something about it. We are prolonging and
increasing the pain and discomfort – for the other person
and ourselves.

Endings are never easy, but endings are not made easy by
sabotage, indirectness, and lying about what we want and
need to do.

Say what you need to say, in honesty and love, when it is
time. If we are trusting and listening to ourselves, we will
know what to say and when to say it.

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