Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Tuesday, February 09, 2016
BEING A VICTIM:
It's okay to be doing okay and to feel like our life is manageable.
Many of us have learned, as part of our survival behaviors that
the way to get the attention and approval we want is to be victims.
We may have learned this from living and associating with people
who also learned to survive by being a victim.
We are not victims. We do not need to be helpless and out of
control to get the attention and love we want.
We can get the love we want and need by only owning our power.
We learn that the people we are leaning on are not holding us up.
They are standing next to us.
We all have bad days, days when things are not going the way
we'd like, days when we have feelings of sadness and fear. But
we can deal with our bad days and negative feelings in ways
that reflect self-responsibility rather than victimization.
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