ENDING RELATIONSHIPS:

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Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the relationship die from lack of
attention rather than risk ending it. Sometimes, it may appear easier to
let the other person take responsibility for ending the relationship.

As we walk this path of self-care, we learn that when it is time to end a
relationship, the easiest way is one of honesty and directness.

We are not sparing the other persons feelings by sabotaging the
relationship instead of accepting the end or the change, and doing
something about it. We are prolonging and increasing the pain and
discomfort – for the other person and ourselves.

Endings are never easy, but endings are not made easy by sabotage,
indirectness, and lying about what we want and need to do.

Say what you need to say, in honesty and love, when it is time. If we are
trusting and listening to ourselves, we will know what to say and when to
say it.

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