Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Thursday, May 14, 2009
TRUST:
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For many of us, the issue is not whether we can trust another
person again; it's whether we can trust our own judgment again.
Many of us have trusted people who went on to deceive, abuse,
manipulate, or otherwise exploit us because we trusted them. We
may have found these people charming, kind, decent. There may
have been a small voice that said, "No – something's wrong." Or
we may have been comfortable with trusting that person and
shocked when we found our instincts were wrong.
The issue may then reverberate through our life for years. Our
trust in others may have been shaken, but our trust in ourselves
may have been shattered worse.
How could something feel so right, flow so good, and be such a total
mistake? How can I ever trust my selection process again?
We cannot let our past interfere with our ability to trust ourselves.
We cannot afford to function with fear.
If we are always making the wrong decision in business or in love,
we may need to learn why we insist on defeating ourselves.
But most of us do improve. We learn. We grow from our mistakes.
Slowly, in increments, our relationships improve. Our business
choices improve. We benefit from our mistakes.
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