Tuesday, June 05, 2012

TRUST:



For many of us, the issue is not whether we can trust another
person again; it's whether we can trust our own judgment
again.

Many of us have trusted people who went on to deceive,
abuse, manipulate, or otherwise exploit us because we
trusted them. We may have found these people charming,
kind, decent. There may have been a small voice that said,
"No – something's wrong." Or we may have been
comfortable with trusting that person and shocked when we
found our instincts were wrong.

The issue may then reverberate through our life for years.
Our trust in others may have been shaken, but our trust in
ourselves may have been shattered worse.

How could something feel so right, flow so good, and be
such a total mistake? How can I ever trust my selection
process again?

We cannot let our past interfere with our ability to trust
ourselves. We cannot afford to function with fear.

If we are always making the wrong decision in business or
in love, we may need to learn why we insist on defeating
ourselves.

But most of us do improve. We learn. We grow from our
mistakes. Slowly, in increments, our  relationships improve.
Our business choices improve. We benefit from our mistakes.

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