Tuesday, July 24, 2012

DEADLINES:



Sometimes, it helps to set a deadline.

This can be true when we face unsolved problems,
or are struggling with a tough decision.

That does not mean a deadline is written in stone.
It means that we are establishing a time frame to
help ourselves not feel so helpless and to help
bring a solution into focus.

We don't always need to tell people we've got a
deadline. Sometimes, it's better to be silent, or
else they may feel we are trying to control them
and may rebel against our deadline. Sometimes,
it is appropriate to share our deadlines with others.

Deadlines are primarily a tool to help ourselves.
They need to be reasonable and appropriate to
each individual situation. Used properly, deadlines
can be a beneficial tool to help us get through
difficult problems and situations without feeling
trapped and helpless. Setting a deadline can help
move us out of that uncomfortable spot of feeling
victimized by a person or a problem we can't solve.

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