Friday, August 10, 2012

ENDING RELATIONSHIPS:



Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the
relationship die from lack of attention rather than
risk ending it. Sometimes, it may appear easier to
let the other person take responsibility for ending
the relationship.

As we walk this path of self-care, we learn that
when it is time to end a relationship, the easiest
way is one of honesty and directness.

We are not sparing the other persons feelings by
sabotaging the relationship instead of accepting
the end or the change, and doing something
about it. We are prolonging and increasing the
pain and discomfort – for the other person and
ourselves.

Endings are never easy, but endings are not
made easy by sabotage, indirectness, and lying
about what we want and need to do.

Say what you need to say, in honesty and love,
when it is time. If we are trusting and listening to
ourselves, we will know what to say and when
to say it.

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