Saturday, October 20, 2012

BEING A VICTIM:



It's okay to be doing okay and to feel like our
life is manageable.

Many of us have learned, as part of our
survival behaviors that the way to get the
attention and approval we want is to be victims.

We may have learned this from living and
associating with people who also learned to
survive by being a victim.

We are not victims. We do not need to be
helpless and out of control to get the attention
and love we want.

We can get the love we want and need by only
owning our power. We learn that the people we
are leaning on are not holding us up. They are
standing next to us.

We all have bad days, days when things are
not going the way we'd like, days when we have
feelings of sadness and fear. But we can deal
with our bad days and negative feelings in ways
that reflect self-responsibility rather than
victimization.

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