Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Monday, March 11, 2013
ON THE JOB:
We take responsibility for ourselves. We detach,
when detachment is called for. We set boundaries,
when we need to do that.
We negotiate conflicts, we try to separate our issues
from the other person's issues, and we don't expect
perfection from ourselves or others.
We let go of our need to control that which we
cannot control. Instead, we strive for peace and
manageability.
We do not tolerate abuse, nor do we abuse or
mistreat anyone else.
We try to not set ourselves up by taking assignments
that couldn't possibly work out, or jobs that are not
right for us.
We leave room for great days, and not so great days.
We are gentle and loving with people whenever
possible, but we are assertive and firm when that is
called for.
Sometimes, we give ourselves a good gripe session to
let it all out, but we do that appropriately. We strive to
avoid malicious gossip and other self-defeating
behaviors.
We avoid competition. We understand that we may
like some people we work with and dislike others, but
strive to find harmony and balance with everyone. We
do not deny how we feel about a certain person, but
we strive to maintain good working relationships
wherever possible.
If something gets or feels crazy, if we find ourselves
working with a person who is addicted or has some
kind of dysfunction that is troublesome, we do not
make ourselves crazier by denying the problem. We
accept it and strive in peace to figure out what we
need to do to take care of ourselves.
We let go of our need to be martyrs or rescuers at
work. We remove ourselves as victims. We practice
acceptance, gratitude, and faith.
One day at a time, we strive to enjoy what is good,
solve the problems that are ours to solve.
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