Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Saturday, April 13, 2013
VICTIM:
You are not a victim.
Victimization can be like a gray cloak that
surrounds us, both attracting that which will
victimize us and causing us to generate the
feelings of victimization.
Victimization can be so habitual that we may feel
victimized even by the good things that happen to
us!
Got a new car? Yes, we sigh, but it doesn't run as
well as I expected, and after all, it cost so much.
You've got such a nice family! Yes, we sigh, but
there are problems. And we've had such hard
times.
If we set our mind to it, we have an incredible,
almost awesome ability to find misery in any
situation.
We may have been victimized. We may have
allowed ourselves to be victimized. We may have
sought out, created, or re-created situations that
victimized us. But we are not victims.
Set a boundary. Deal with the anger. Tell someone
no, or stop that. Walk away from a relationship.
Ask for what you need. Make choices and take
responsibility for them.
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