Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
GIVING:
For a while, we may need to back off
from giving as we learn to discern the
difference between healthy giving and
caretaking.
To be healthy, to do our part in this
spiritual way of life, to be part of the
endless cycle of the Universe, we need
to give and receive.
Giving is a fine-lined behavior each of
us must seek to understand for
ourselves. It is giving that feels good
and does not leave us feeling
victimized.
It is giving based on a desire to do it
rather than from a sense of guilt, pity,
shame, or obligation.
It is giving with no strings attached.
Or it is giving based on a clean,
direct contract.
Whether it is giving of our time,
efforts, energy, comfort, nurturing,
money, or ourselves, it is giving that
we can afford.
We can learn to give in healthy ways;
we can learn to give in love. We need
to keep an eye on our giving, to make
sure it has not crossed the line into
caretaking. But we need to learn to
give in ways that work for us and
others.
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