Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Monday, July 01, 2013
TRUST:
For many of us, the issue is not
whether we can trust another person
again; it's whether we can trust our
own judgment again.
Many of us have trusted people who
went on to deceive, abuse, manipulate,
or otherwise exploit us because we
trusted them. We may have found
these people charming, kind, decent.
There may have been a small voice that
said, "No – something's wrong." Or we
may have been comfortable with
trusting that person and shocked when
we found our instincts were wrong.
The issue may then reverberate through
our life for years. Our trust in others
may have been shaken, but our trust in
ourselves may have been shattered
worse.
How could something feel so right,
flow so good, and be such a total
mistake? How can I ever trust my
selection process again?
We cannot let our past interfere with
our ability to trust ourselves. We
cannot afford to function with fear.
If we are always making the wrong
decision in business or in love, we may
need to learn why we insist on
defeating ourselves.
But most of us do improve. We learn.
We grow from our mistakes. Slowly, in
increments, our relationships improve.
Our business choices improve. We
benefit from our mistakes.
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