Friday, September 06, 2013

ENDING RELATIONSHIPS:


Sometimes, it may appear easier to let
the relationship die from lack of
attention rather than risk ending it.
Sometimes, it may appear easier to let
the other person take responsibility for
ending the relationship.

As we walk this path of self-care, we
learn that when it is time to end a
relationship, the easiest way is one of
honesty and directness.

We are not sparing the other persons
feelings by sabotaging the relationship
instead of accepting the end or the
change, and doing something about it.
We are prolonging and increasing the
pain and discomfort – for the other
person and ourselves.

Endings are never easy, but endings are
not made easy by sabotage,
indirectness, and lying about what we
want and need to do.

Say what you need to say, in honesty
and love, when it is time. If we are
trusting and listening to ourselves, we
will know what to say and when to say
it.

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