Tuesday, October 27, 2015

ENDING RELATIONSHIPS:


Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the relationship
die from lack of attention rather than risk ending it.
Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the other person
take responsibility for ending the relationship.

As we walk this path of self-care, we learn that when it
is time to end a relationship, the easiest way is one of
honesty and directness.

We are not sparing the other persons feelings by
sabotaging the relationship instead of accepting the end
or the change, and doing something about it. We are
prolonging and increasing the pain and discomfort – for
the other person and ourselves.

Endings are never easy, but endings are not made easy
by sabotage, indirectness, and lying about what we want
and need to do.

Say what you need to say, in honesty and love, when it is
time. If we are trusting and listening to ourselves, we will
know what to say and when to say it.

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