DO WE NEED PEOPLE?:

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Can we find the balance between needing people too much and letting
ourselves become totally independent from others?

Some of us have dependency needs lingering from the past. While we want
others to fulfill our thoughts to be loved unconditionally, we may have chosen
people who cannot, or will not, be there for us.

Some of us go to the other extreme. We may have become used to people not
being there for us, so we push them away, We fight off our feelings of
neediness by becoming overly independent, not allowing ourselves to need
anyone.

If we have shut off the part of us that needs people, we become willing to
open up, be vulnerable, and let ourselves be loved. We let ourselves have
needs.

We will get the love we need and desire when we begin to believe we're
lovable, and when we allow that to happen.

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