Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Can we find the balance between needing people too much and letting ourselves become totally independent from others?
Some of us have dependency needs lingering from the past. While we want others to fulfill our thoughts to be loved unconditionally, we may have chosen people who cannot, or will not, be there for us.
Some of us go to the other extreme. We may have become used to people not being there for us, so we push them away, We fight off our feelings of neediness by becoming overly independent, not allowing ourselves to need anyone.
If we have shut off the part of us that needs people, we can become willing to open up, be vulnerable, and let ourselves be loved. We can let ourselves have needs.
We will get the love we need and desire when we begin to believe we're lovable, and when we allow that to happen.
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