Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Wednesday, July 04, 2012
MOVING ON:
Sometimes, as part of taking care of ourselves, it becomes
time to end certain relationships. Sometimes, it comes time
to change the parameters of a particular relationship.
Sometimes, we linger in relationships that are dead, out of
fear of being alone or to postpone the inevitable grieving
process that accompanies endings. Sometimes, we need to
linger for a while, to prepare ourselves, to get strong enough
to handle the change.
Knowing that a relationship is changing or is about to end is
a difficult place to be in, especially when it is not yet time to
act but we know the time is drawing near. It can be
awkward and uncomfortable. We may become impatient,
but not yet feel empowered to do that. That's okay.
Something important is still happening. When the time is right,
we can trust that it will happen. We will receive the power
and the ability to do what we need to do.
Ending relationships or changing the boundaries of a particular
relationship is not easy. It requires courage and faith. It
requires a willingness on our part to take care of ourselves
and, sometimes, to stand alone for a while.
We are never starting over. In recovery, we are moving
forward in a perfectly planned progression of lessons. When
the lesson has been mastered, we will move on. We will find
ourselves in a new place, learning new lessons, with new
people.
No, the lessons are not all painful. We will arrive at that place
where we can learn, not from pain, but from joy and love.
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