Thursday, August 16, 2012

INSISTING ON THE BEST:



We deserve the best life and love have to offer,
but we are each faced with the challenge of
learning to identify what that means in our life.
We must each come to grips with our own
understanding of what we believe we deserve,
what we want, and whether we are receiving it.

What hurts? What makes us angry? What are
we whining and complaining about? Are we
discounting how much a particular behavior is
hurting us? Are we making excuses for the other
person, telling ourselves we're "too demanding"?

Are we reluctant, for a variety of reasons,
especially fear, to tackle the issues in our
relationships that may be hurting us? Do we
know what's hurting us and do we know that we
have a right to stop the pain, if we want to do
that?

We can begin the journey from deprived to
deserving. We can start it today. We can also be
patient and gentle with ourselves, as we travel in
important increments from believing we deserve
second best, and taking responsibility for that.

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