Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Saturday, June 09, 2012
PROGRESS:
We cannot afford to put our needs on hold, waiting for
another person to fulfill us, make our life better, or come
around and be who and what we want that person to be.
If we have decided we want a particular relationship or
want to wait about making a decision in a particular
relationship, then we must go on with our own life in the
interim.
That can be hard. It can feel natural to put our life on hold.
That's a circumstance that can hook our low self-esteem.
We can get into this situation in a number of ways. We can
do this waiting for a letter, waiting for a job, waiting for a
person, waiting for an event.
What is something I could be doing now to take care of
myself, make myself feel better, get my needs met in an
appropriate, healthy way?
Sometimes, we get the answer we want immediately.
Sometimes, we wait for a while. Sometimes, things don't
work out exactly the way we hoped. But they always
work out for good, and often better than we expected.
And in the meantime, we have manifested love for
ourselves by living our own life and taking the control
away from others.
Stopping living our life to make a thing happen doesn't
work. All it does is make us miserable, because we have
stopped living our life.
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