Monday, September 23, 2013

DO WE NEED PEOPLE?:


Can we find the balance between
needing people too much and letting
ourselves become totally independent
from others?

Some of us have dependency needs
lingering from the past. While we
want others to fulfill our thoughts to
be loved unconditionally, we may
have chosen people who cannot, or
will not, be there for us.

Some of us go to the other extreme.
We may have become used to people
not being there for us, so we push
them away, We fight off our feelings
of neediness by becoming overly
independent, not allowing ourselves
to need anyone.

If we have shut off the part of us that
needs people, we can become willing
to open up, be vulnerable, and let
ourselves be loved. We can let
ourselves have needs.

We will get the love we need and
desire when we begin to believe we're
lovable, and when we allow that to
happen.

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