Bill Says: (A Blog About Recovery)
Some thoughts about recovery. * Take what you like and leave the rest.
Tuesday, November 17, 2015
DO WE NEED PEOPLE?:
Can we find the balance between needing people too
much and letting ourselves become totally independent
from others?
Some of us have dependency needs lingering from the
past. While we want others to fulfill our thoughts to be
loved unconditionally, we may have chosen people
who cannot, or will not, be there for us.
Some of us go to the other extreme. We may have
become used to people not being there for us, so we
push them away, We fight off our feelings of neediness
by becoming overly independent, not allowing
ourselves to need anyone.
If we have shut off the part of us that needs people, we
can become willing to open up, be vulnerable, and let
ourselves be loved. We can let ourselves have needs.
We will get the love we need and desire when we begin
to believe we're lovable, and when we allow that to happen.
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